the tweet heard 'round the world: a few words about segregation and educational options

little rock arkansas segregation
By the rude bridge that arched the flood,
Their flag to April's breeze unfurled;
Here once the embattled farmers stood,
And fired the shot heard 'round the world.


so begin's ralph waldo's emerson 1837 masterpiece, concord hymn. the line that closes the stanza, of course, has become a cultural idiom. the shot heard 'round the world is in reference to the american revolutionary war, specifically the battles of lexington and concord. indeed, those shots reverberated around the globe and set our nation on a new course.

and then—on august 21, 2010—there was this:

worth not just a read, but extended reflection for LR people / RT @GOOD: Are students pre-segregated before high school? http://su.pr/9msbx1less than a minute ago via Tweetie for Mac



which was immediately followed by this:

in addition to what the @GOOD article says, it's also worth reflecting on "self-segregation" (parents who put their kids in private school).less than a minute ago via Tweetie for Mac



ah yes, the tweet heard 'round the world.
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more sheepishness: a few thoughts about our culture of fear



the bible's a funny thing. and so is following that guy jesus.

at best, they're frustrating. at worst, they're maddening. even illogical. counterintuitive.

you see, in scripture, we're referred to as sheep. basically, mindless followers that roam without proper self defense or the ability to find the way on our own. we just sorta hang out with the flock and go where the shepherd leads.

we're sitting ducks. but, you know, in the sheepish kind of way. (a shmuck?)

quite frankly, sheep should be frightened.

but the bible's a funny thing.
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one month down: new pictures of max

better late than never, right?

it's hard to believe, but tomorrow, july 8, max will be one month old. wow. at the risk of total cliché, time has flown by. it really does seem like yesterday that we were going to the hospital to prepare for his arrival. and now, fast forward a month…and we're just now taking pictures of him. yes, in the household of a photographer (christen), we're just now getting around to it. i guess that's just how it goes at this point…
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so i'm the dude who crashed little rock family's mommy blogger story



greetings. welcome to the blog. maybe you're here because you saw me in a little rock family story about the top local bloggers. i'm the large, hairy woman in the middle. you know, the one who looks like the offspring of a lumberjack and a grizzly bear. yeah, that's me.

the lone dude.
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of max and men: teaching a boy to be a man



in the event that you've slept through the last several days or haven't read my blog (or decided to unfollow me in the midst of gratuitous labor tweeting…), baby byrd #3–max ryan byrd–squirted into this world on tuesday afternoon. weighing in just slightly under the minimum tonnage for aspiring sumo wrestlers, all 9 lbs, 3 oz of max has spent the last couple days acclimating to his new home. big sister olive and even bigger sister lucy have also been acclimating to having a new human being in their home, especially for the fact that this new human being is a little boy.
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the new baby byrd has arrived: first pictures of max

well, he's here…

yes, max ryan byrd made his triumphant arrival yesterday at 1:16 p.m. if you weren't aware, we were scheduled to induce yesterday morning (on the awesomely, numerically nerdy 6/8/10) and things went very smoothly. christen was incredible and literally up to the point of pushing, she was calm and really didn't experience too much pain (relatively speaking, of course). the pushing went well and all 9 lbs, 3 oz (!) came plopping out just like he ruled the joint. :)
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pre-max: a lucy and olive photo retrospective

tomorrow—tuesday, june 8, 2010—max ryan byrd will be born. we've been scheduled to induce and while we're not big fans of inducement, it's definitely a relief after what has been a month of constant anticipation. it's a little strange knowing the exact date of your child's birth, but it certainly does allow for a little planning that we didn't have when lucy and olive decided to pop out a couple weeks early.

with max's impending birth, the focus will largely shift to his arrival. for older children, it can be a difficult adjustment. lucy did pretty well with olive and i expect olive to do alright, but i thought i'd give lucy and olive the spotlight one last time before max jumps into the scene (and subsequently steals it).
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baby watch 2010: lucy lu turns 3 and a free max mix



ok, which cliché do you want? how about time flies when you're having fun? or maybe it seems just like yesterday that she born? of course, there's she'll be all grown up before we know it. there's plenty others i could throw at you and quite frankly, many are true. the fact is, our little lucy lu turns 3 years old today and many of the age-old sayings that seem a little worn out ring true for me today.
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father's day pictures

ok, christen told me my previous post about father's day was "depressing" and "weird." in fact, i believe she read it and then said, "wah waaaaahhh". so, i'm going to redeem it with a couple pictures she shot today in our backyard.despite the fact that lucy was being a grade-A terd, we managed to get at least one semi-usable one (although she demanded she hold an old rusty hose nozzle she found). olive
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father's day thoughts: count your blessings...or curses...

let's talk a little father's day theology.today is a great day. as stated, it's father's day. for me, as the father of two beautiful little girls, this day is less about being honored and recognized and more about me stopping to think about how beautiful and incredible my daughters are and the impact they have on my life. i've certainly done that today.one thing i notice, though, is that days like
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lucy lu: summertime on the farm

christen took the girls to her grandma's house last week and shot a bunch of photos. i'm experimenting with some various photo techniques and textures, so here's just one i messed around with a little bit.lucy tends to turn off the usual lucy hilariousness and charm, but for these, she decided to show the smile. so, here ya go. (click to see larger)
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lucy and olive hit the pool

we hit the pool a couple days ago and needless to say, lucy and olive had a blast. christen blogged about it over at babybyrds.com (where she's put a couple updates as of late) and i thought i'd throw up a couple quick pics of the girls here.
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a quick pic of lucy lu

in a lot of ways, this really captures the essence of lucy, so i thought i'd share it.
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to lucy: birthday two

it's 11:56 p.m.4 minutes left in lucy's 2nd birthday.for me, blogging is an extension of my brain. it's what stirs internally coming out in an external platform. it's easy. and fluid.in this case, though, i've been sitting here for awhile trying to think of the best way to write this. it isn't that i don't know what to say. it's more that i don't know what not to say. as you well know, i can be notoriously
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WARNING: gratuitous proud poop pictures ahead. :)

to emphasis the "WARNING" part of the title, i'm just gonna keep it real and say that i'm about to drop a serious pooping story on you. if you are gagging just reading the word, "pooping", then you may want to call it quits now. :)with that said...file this blog post under two categories:1. only a parent would actually be excited about something this, or2. embarrassing pictures just waiting for lucy
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happy birthday, olive!

ok...that's if you count months as birthday opportunities...which, of course, we do. so...happy birthday, olive!today, i can't believe it, but olive is 1 month old. just four(ish) shorts weeks ago, olive came into the world and we already can't remember what life was like without her.now, i'm not going to be sappy, cry-er dad here (which would be typical...), but i just wanted to take a minute to put
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oh! christmas tree

these days, we're on a little slower schedule than what we used to be. last weekend, we bought a christmas tree. tonight, a full week later, we decorated it. it took us a week to muster enough energy to actually throw some freakin' balls and lights on our goofy tree. needless to say, it's been a little hectic around the byrd household as of late.anyway, the tree stands, in all its glory, decorated
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new olive pics!

we finally got a chance (read: olive was awake, lucy was being nice and me & christen felt like doing it) to shoot some more pictures of olive (and lucy) today. these are the first ones we've done beyond the hospital pics, so we were excited to finally do them. also, as you can see, we did some with lucy and olive together. they turned out really great. (don't worry, although there were a couple
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babybyrds.com updated!

hey everybody, make sure you fly (ha ha...get it, "fly"...because you see, it's babybyrds.com...you know, like a bird...how they fly...ha ha.....) on over to babybyrds.com! christen has finally gotten a chance to do some updates and talk about the whole olive experience from her point-of-view.it's about time she updated it...i mean, what's she doing with all her time? feeding a newborn? looking after
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more pics of olive: day 5 (already!)

update time:i fee like time is flying. it's almost been a week! this is my first blog since saturday, so that may give you a little insight as to my time availability for blogging... i finally have a few minutes, so i thought i would offer a few updates and put up a few new pics.olive: she's looking more and more beautiful each day. her skin is gorgeous, her hair is shiny and beautiful and she's starting
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a quick pic from olive's first night home

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notes on an olive

hopefully you all have had a chance to read, a couple posts back, about the process by which we have welcomed olive into the world. if not, take a minute to read it...christen was on the brink of telling me to remove some stuff when she got a chance to read it, so that lets you know it's worth the read. :)i thought i would follow up the long account and the initial pics (which i hope to have more
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babybyrds.com!

i'm excited to let you guys know that we got babybyrds.com up and running tonight! this will be the home for all things christen and ryan offspring: namely, lucy and olive (but we're sure there will be more to come down the road...). primarily, this will be the place that christen blogs, but i'll hop on from time to time. we'll be putting pictures, updates, video and whatever else seems to be entertaining
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lucy lu: sans parents

lucy spent a couple days at grandma and grandpa's house, which meant the following:1. she got to stay up really late2. she could get away with not taking naps3. she generally got what she wanted, and4. she got to go to day care with grandma and aunt bethanythe former of this list is by far her favorite part. the times in the past that she's gone to cradle care, she's had a blast. lucy loves other kids
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lucy lu @ the pumpkin patch

on saturday, we went, along with our best friends rob and stephanie and their kids, to the schaefers and collins pumpkin patch and farm in the fine and bustling city of mayflower. we really had a good time watching lucy run around fearlessly on the big kid playground and in and out of all the pumpkins. it's hilarious how fearless she is (especially zipping down the big slides).this trip called for
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lucy in technicolor

ok, i swear i'm not going to turn this blog into a lucy photo gallery (although i can't make any guarantees when the new byrd baby arrives...). but..i thought this picture of lucy turned out great from this weekend in paducah. our friend terri took it, but i played around with the toning that a friend of mine recently showed me. i've been tweaking the toning effect a little and i thought it was interesting
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paducah: a retrospective (cue flowery music...)

it’s hard to believe, but we’ve been gone from paducah for almost a year now. we love everything about little rock, but we really do still miss paducah. for being the weird little small town that it is, it was a good place to live. for the first time since leaving, we were able to go back and visit. i thought i would offer some highlights and insights from the weekend.1. paducah is still named
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lucy lu

this is a picture christen shot several weeks ago and posted on her flickr page. it's my desktop image at work and i had to put it on here because it perfectly captures lucy.
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lucy the camera hog

when you flip around the viewfinder so that lucy can see herself, she suddenly transforms into the camera hog that she was born to be...(p.s. sorry for the crappy audio...)
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lucy lu

a few of the latest pics of lucy...
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lucy

i'm consistently reminded about how deep my love for lucy is and how much brighter she makes my life. most of the time, i notice these things in the simplest parts of life.a couple days ago, we made a monumental switch: we turned around lucy's car seat. this change has been really fun for us because we can see exactly what lucy is doing as we drive along (of course, the chance of rear ending some other
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